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Writer's pictureMelissa

What about the ‘Readiness’ Gap



Very rarely do both people come into the separation process equally ready to move through it. Usually one person has been considering a change for a longer period of time and the other person is playing a bit of catch up. This difference in readiness can introduce a lot of emotion and reactivity into discussions where decision making needs to happen.

 

While our unique approach often expedites things it also simplifies them immensely. We have found that by simplifying the separation process and providing you both with the knowledge and advice you need, when you need it, there is less time to get stuck in that emotional space.

 

Having a joint family lawyer also sets a tone of neutrality so you can work through these decisions from a problem solving perspective instead of from an oppositional position. Our clients have told us that having a set schedule of meetings, and a firm timeline in mind was crucial in helping them face their changing reality. When the end goal is in sight we can all work together to get there.

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